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Dr.
James Martin Peebles
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The Many Faces of Abuse
God bless you Dr. Peebles here, it is a joy and a blessing when man and spirit join together in search of the greater truths and awareness. As you strive to understand your right to receive and to give abundance in this your chosen lifetime, we would like to offer to you the following principles to be used as tools in tandem, number one; loving allowance for all things to be in their own time and place starting for yourself, number two; increase communication with all of life and with respect, number three; self responsibility for your life as a creative adventure for it is through your choices and perceptions you do indeed create your reality. You have come to the school called planet earth to discover and dissolve the illusions of separation within self and between life, certainly it is your labor of love to diminish these very same illusions wherein you will discover that never in your eternal soul have you been the victim but always the creator and certainly my dear friends when it comes to understanding the many faces of abuse it is very difficult for those who are indeed the victims here in the course of this work to understand that they are as well the creators of their own reality, understand that the momentum, the force behind the creation of what you would consider to be abuse here upon the planet earth began at the very beginnig...
Before we explore this relationship of abuse, of victim and creator, the abuser and the abused, we want you to understand that what we are sharing here is a perspective that comes from a very different realm. A realm where abuse does not exist. For us to discuss it we must have the understanding that we do not believe in abuse. We do not believe that there is such a thing. You have created it upon your planet earth as a point of discovery of yourself in relationship to life. As a point of understanding that what you truly want to create here upon the earth is the eternal bond of love for that is the reality, the rest is an illusion. Abuse is an illusion, an illusion of separation that keeps you at arms length from love. It's really quite as simple as this and for you, rather complex. We understand that your hearts are hurting. As far as we are concerned however, if you would step into our realm of understanding, you would realize that we feel that it is a very beautiful thing that your hearts are hurting. A very beautiful thing that you do not want for anyone to feel this kind of pain in their lives, not on behalf of the victim as you would call the one who is abused, nor the one who is seemingly in charge, the abuser. It is the abuser as well as the abused that are both very much in pain, very much in pain of understanding that there is indeed a reality in their life that is still keeping them separate from love. The motivating force for the abuser is one when one is very much not in love with ones self, not aware that God loves them.
Understand that everyone here upon the planet earth is not only abused but an abuser. In small ways, shapes and forms, everyone here upon the earth has found ways in which they can indeed abuse each other upon the earth as well to abuse the earth itself. Many faces of abuse can occur in a single moment where there is an ability on the part of human beings to try to control one another through subtle manipulations. Whether it is a small child crying and faking the cries so that he can manipulate mommy into giving him an extra cookie or such thing, this is an abuse. An abuse of what? an abuse of love. It is during this abuse that there is a discovery of self in relationship to life. What does the abuse do to the abuser? it does not bring them any closer to the world but creates further separation, the very thing that they are trying to avoid. Trying very much to find ways to manipulate the world, to draw them closer still, because why, because everyone here upon the planet earth is in a grand discovery and exploration of self in relationship to life, what is this exploration, an exploration of love.
What is it that all upon the planet earth wants to bring closer to them, the vibrational frequency of love. All beings here upon the planet earth, as well as all objects, as well as all creepy crawlers upon the planet earth are indeed channels of this love in varying degrees. How much do you want to channel this love? How much do you want to give to one another in terms of this love? in terms of understanding that what you want would be the opposite of abuse which is embrace. The opposite of abuse is embrace truly from the heart.
Understanding this will bring about greater awareness and understanding of those who are the abusers.
We understand the many rather than the few have indeed been abused in the course of your lifetime. We understand that your daddy did not serve you well by touching you in the night. We understand that your mommy was particularly spectacular with her anger toward you. We understand that often times you have had many, many repercussions from these acts of abuse towards you, from husband to wife, from wife to husband, please understand that we are very much aware of this, that you are indeed hurting in your ever lovin heart from the forms of abuse that you have had to endure, but for a moment here we would simply ask that you sit in absolute wonder at the reality that you have created, that you are still here upon the earth, that you have chosen to survive, that you have come to a greater awareness that you are not worthy of such acts of torture, that you are only worthy of acts of love.
These experiences for you have been tough teachers without question, but truly, they have helped you to understand, to spell out for you how very beautiful you are, how very compassionate you are, how very trustworthy you are, how many of you have even stepped forth as a result of their experiences to becoming the teachers to the many rather than the few, to help and assist others to understand that they always have a chance to change, to change their reality, their perspective, to understand that what they are seeking is love. The many rather than the few have helped and assisted their abusers, have often times not been able to turn away from the one who has abused them. Why? because you are smart cookies, that's why. Because you have an awareness of what really counts here upon planet earth, that indeed it is love that counts, love my dear friends, the eternal love of self, the eternal love of all of life...
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